10 Things to Try in Bed with Your Partner

Getting creative in bed and trying new experiences is a great way of spicing up your sex life. From attempting complex positions to just trying something new and simple, branching out into different means of pleasure and sex can have wondrous effects on your sexual gratification and relationship by bringing you and your partner closer together. Here are a few sexy things you can try in bed with your partner to intensify the pleasure and make for an exhilarating experience.

1. Role playing

Add some dramatic flair to the bedroom with some role playing bits that allow you and your partner to covet your very own sexy character. Role playing is perfect for spicing things up in the bedroom. It adds something fun and silly with a sexy edge and is great for releasing some of that serious tension.

2. Light bondage

You don’t need to get serious with the whips and chains here, but experimenting with some light bondage can be a pleasurable experience for the both of you.

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It can be a lot of fun to blindfold your partner or handcuff them to the bed and just go at it. Even more, you can take turns in the dominating and submissive roles to switch it up and add a little adventure. This is a great way of exploring different sides of your sexuality.

3. Watch porn together

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All awkwardness aside, watching porn with your partner while in bed can be a good way of heating things up and getting in the mood. Getting off on porn doesn’t have to be a solo activity.

Use it as a stimulating way to get things going, and you can even use it as a way to masturbate in front of each other. Watching someone else’s pleasure is a good way of enhancing your own after all. Afterwards, you and your partner can even attempt to recreate the scenes you watched to add a little challenge.

4. Sexy striptease

This is a great and fun way of bringing some excitement to the bedroom. Instead of just launching into sex right off the bat, try leading into it with a striptease. Put on some sexy music that you can dance to, and put on a performance for your partner by dancing and grinding up against them while simultaneously taking off your clothes.

5. Experiment with food

What’s better than food and sex combined? You can use anything from whipped cream to chocolate to whatever your heart desires, just rub it on the parts of your body where you want your partner to lick it off. Not only are you experiencing the sensual pleasure of your partner’s tongue, but your partner gets a delicious taste.

6. Mimic the Kama Sutra

You’ve probably seen or, at the very least, heard of the Kama Sutra book of sexual positions.
One way to add a little flavor to your sex life is to pick up a copy from the bookstore, flip through the pages, and try out some of the positions. It can be tricky and challenging, but it’s a very sexy way of getting closer to your partner.

7. Add some sex toys into the mix

If you’re the type of couple to leave it all completely up to each other, maybe take a trip to a local sex toy shop to add some excitement and flair to your sex life.

It’s a great way of playing out your fantasies and it’s a great way of spicing things up in the sheets with a toy or two. Doing something as simple as adding a vibrator into the action can help enhance stimulation and make for a more pleasurable experience.

8. Delayed gratification

Instead of focusing on achieving that orgasm, try delaying pleasure by backing off every time one of you pushes the other to the brink. This will prolong the action and heat things up rather quickly, making the eventual climax a truly unforgettable one.

9. Incorporate some lube

If you don’t already, try introducing some lube into the bedroom. Using lubricant is a great way of enhancing sensitivity and intensifying pleasure, allowing for that sensuous and stimulating feel that can otherwise be uncomfortable and painful without the proper lubrication. Experiment with different scents and flavors to make sex all the more interesting and gratifying.

10. Make love

Sure you and your partner are no strangers to having sex with each other, but how often do you actually make love? Instead of simply focusing on getting to that climax, slow it down and focus on each other.

Move sensually, caress and massage your partner, and kiss your partner’s neck. Make it slow and passionate, and really allow yourself to connect on that deeper level that sometimes gets in lost in the steaminess of concentrating on your own pleasure.

How to Talk to Your Partner About Trying Something New

Sex should always be fun and exhilarating. So when things start to get stale in the bedroom, how do you broach the subject? You may be keen on trying something new and kinky, or playing out one of your bedroom fantasies or fetishes, but don’t know how to go about talking to your partner about it.

For couples, talking about your sex life is important in order to ensure that both of you are happy and fulfilled. Sometimes, preferences on adventurous sexual experiences are varied.

What’s most important is making sure that both partners are allowing themselves to be happy and comfortable while maintaining an intimate connection. Here are some tips on getting your partner to spice things up in the bedroom:

1. First, do your research

Before blindsiding your partner with your great idea for a new sexual adventure, do your homework and make sure you know what exactly is involved. Read up on safety tips and techniques that will make the experience more pleasurable, or learn about special sex toys for enhanced excitement. Getting a good grasp on what you may want to accomplish will work in your favor when you need to explain it all to your partner.

2. Ease your way into it

Start out small. Don’t expect your partner to dive right into something new, especially if they aren’t usually adventurous to begin with. Instead, bring up the topic slowly and when the timing is right, especially if talking about sex isn’t something you normally do as a couple. It’s probably best not to bring up the topic while you’re already in bed and about to have sex, or at the dinner table. Instead, start by finding a time when to bring up to your partner that you might be interested in trying something new and go from there.

3. Set rules

Communicate to your partner what you would like to try, gauge their interest, and then talk to them about setting rules that will ensure they are feeling as comfortable and in control as you. Your partner may only be interested in trying something new because you are, but may not really know for sure if they’ll enjoy it. Making it clear that you two can establish a set of ground rules will work best for translating that communication into the bedroom. Creating a comfortable and intimate environment is best for ensuring that your partner’s comfort level is respected, and communicating your way into it is essential for ensuring a good experience for both of you

4. Be honest

Don’t make excuses for why you want to do something. Be completely honest with your partner and tell them exactly what you’re suggesting and why it intrigues you. Talk to them about any ideas and concerns you may have, and open up the discussion so they can do the same as well. Make them feel special by reminding them that this is something you want to try together, which is why you’re bringing it up.

5. Don’t wait

You might feel nervous or scared to suggest something new to your partner, especially if you feel as though your partner might take it personally. However, it’s important to communicate openly in order to ensure a happy and healthy sex life. So if you’re feeling bored in the bedroom, don’t settle just because your partner may be fine with it. Who knows, maybe the thing you suggest could bring you both closer together on an intimate level.

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