After great sex, you realize something horrifying– your partner’s condom got stuck inside you. If this happens, keep calm and don’t panic. This is actually a common scenario and happens to a lot of people.
And the situation can be rectified easily, too. Here are a few methods you can try to get the condom out safely:
The Lie Down Method
You should lie down on the bed, facing up, and then spread your legs apart. If there are no traces of the condom outside your body that you can carefully pull out, you have to feel it inside and take it out slowly.
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Take extra care so no part of the condom breaks and stays inside the vagina as you do this. Know that if this happens, you will have to see a doctor to help take out the remnant.
Squatting
Another thing you can do if you are having difficulty removing the condom is simply trying to squat it out. If you aren’t able to get the condom out by lying down, try this squatting technique.
Plant your feet flat on the floor and use your quads to squat down in hopes of getting the missing rubber out of the vaginal canal. The change in position might cause the condom to come out easier if it isn’t lodged too far in there.
Get Better Access
If your partner’s condom comes off inside of you, it most likely is lodged near the top of vaginal canal near the cervix. In order to gain better access, trying propping one foot up on a chair and using your fingers to retrieve the condom. Don’t forget to wash your hands first, then stick your fingers inside and feel around to see if you can reach it.
You can also try maneuvering your legs to push it out if you can’t seem to reach it. Some recommend getting into the birthing position and actually pushing as if you’re birthing a baby. It sounds silly, but it’s effective and much better than a trip to the emergency room.
Ask Your Partner to Retrieve It
It might be embarrassing, but your partner might be in the better position to fish the condom out than you. His fingers might also be longer, which will work better if you just can’t seem to reach it.
What Next?
If you have succeeded in taking out the condom, be sure you cleanse yourself well and immediately take a morning-after pill.
This will decrease the possibly of you getting pregnant, as the contents of the condom could have slipped out while stuck inside you. There’s a huge possibility that semen has gotten out. Don’t take any chances.
What if you STILL can’t get it out?
If you run into any difficulty in removing the condom after several attempts, it’s time for a doctor to do it. Drive to the nearest hospital’s emergency ward and tell the attendants the situation.
Keeping the condom inside you for hours could lead to possible infection. If all attempts are made and you still can’t get it out, you must seek the help of a health professional.
Prevention
A Condom slips from a man and ends up stuck inside a woman because it’s either too lose or too tight. Prevent this from happening again by wearing the kind of condom that fits your partner perfectly. Getting the right one is definitely the first step to enjoying deep intimacy together.
References
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1. https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/lost-condom.html
2. https://www.wikihow.com/Remove-a-Condom-Stuck-Inside
3. https://metro.co.uk/2018/04/11/get-condom-stuck-inside-7457797/
4. https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/can-you-get-pregnant-if-the-condom-breaks
Hi. So I just had sex with my boyfriend and the condom got stuck really far up there. I got it out but when I got it out it was empty. When I was 14 I crushed my ovaries and doctors said I can’t carry past 6 months. But I’m still worried. How long do I wait to take a test?
they usually recommend taking it 7 days after the missed period date
I need help.
I recently met a young lady and we ended up having sex with a condom. She put it on and I did not watch her do it.. When we were finished and I went to take it off I found all that was remaining was practically just a ring. That was our first time together and I didn’t know what to do so threw it in the bin.
I didn’t say anything to her. But am really worried right now. I have made an appointment with a sexual health clinic this week. I felt that having recent results before speaking to her would help. But that will take seven days. I have been reading up on split condoms and I feel the longer I leave this the worse things could get.
I’m afraid this is too much of a terrible start to the relationship.
Should I bring this up? And how can I do it?
oh, I think you should have told her :( the condom might have ended inside her. besides an STD, there’s also a risk of pregnancy. I’m not sure how much time has passed since the incident, but I think you should tell her. I really don’t know what would be the best approach, but if you don’t want to be completely open about it, maybe introduce it in a more subtle way, eg. how you feel the condom broke that day and how you should take steps to make sure you’re both safe… I think she would appreciate your honesty! good luck man!
I had sex with my boyfriend two days before my fertile period and the condom got stuck in there I found out in four days time. could it be I am pregnant already?
Hi there Melissa!
If you got your menstrual period, then you are not pregnant. Regards
I recently had a condom get stuck inside of me after having sex. I managed to get it out within minutes but I am worried that I am pregnant… but then I am not worried because my period started literally the next morning. Should I be worried and take the morning after pill or being on my period eliminates the chances of me getting pregnant?
I had sex with my friend on 10th August but in the process of changing position we realized the condom was missing. We looked for it but it was nowhere to be found. The only option was to check inside me. We tried but couldn’t find it. Next day we went to a doctor who examined me. They said it was not there. Using their tools,they could not find the thing. I am so worried I don’t know where the rubber went . Please help.
Hi there Irene Uganda!
The condom might be stuck inside you deep upwards. You should get a specialist help ASAP. It needs to be removed by a doctor, otherwise you risk infection if menstrual blood/discharge cannot escape. Hope this helps!
I had sex with my boyfriend and the condom came of inside of me. i didn’t realise this for hours until i peed and wiped there was no cum in it. could it came out inside me and whats the posibility of pregnancy? I’m on the pill but it was my fertile day
How rare is it too still get your period, or as it has been noted, “breakthrough bleeding,” and still be pregnant?
I feel it’s a slim chance i could be. Never had unprotected sex between my friend and I.
One month it got stuck in me.. Then another
4-5 weeks later it happened again.
1st time. It was really up there. For prob 10 min cause we were searching and couldn’t find it. He did finish. There was a lil cum on the bed. Like a small spot. Rest def got in me.
2nd time wasn’t in all the way. But close. and not for two long. But i felt the cum near my vagina and backside and thighs.
me and my partner had sex and when we finished and he pulled out, the condom wasn’t there. we are very concerned if it’s stuck inside me cause we looked every where in our room and on our bed and under sheets and it’s not found. we tried several attempts to see if i feel that it’s inside me and try to get it out but no luck. I really don’t know if it’s in me.
well, it’s really hard to tell from what you wrote. I suggest that you speak with a doctor about it
I am a guy and i just found out that condom is stuck in my butt for 3 days and it’s still there. what do i do?
get it out as soon as possible. you might need to visit a doctor