Are you looking for ideas to rev up your sex life? How about activities to make it hotter than it already is?
The internet is flooded with self-help books, romance novels, and erotic stories that are sure to pump up your biggest sex organ – your brain.
Of course, if you prefer not to go bumbling about it and ruin your chances of getting laid, reading guidebooks or those that provide an insight to better, steamier sex is the key to starting something with the right foot.
What are some of the books to read that will change your sex life?
1. The Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana
Not everyone may read Kama Sutra, but anyone who did and put it into practice swears by how amazing their sexual experience has been since after reading the book.
Whether or not the same thing can happen to you is definitely worth finding out.
Contrary to popular belief, this instructional book doesn’t revolve around sex positions but demonstrations of adoration from more than 3,000 points of view.
It provides the perfect way to open your sexuality and explore them if you haven’t done it yet.
For some people, reading Kama Sutra is both relaxing and educational. You could tell a different story. Why not find out?
The book is also available in other versions, such as The Complete Kama Sutra: The First Unabridged Modern Translation of the Classic Indian Text by Alain Daniélou.
2. Guide To Getting It On! A Book About The Wonders Of Sex
It is possible that your circumstances have changed and finding the time and place to have sex has become more challenging than ever.
Paul Joannides and Gröss Daerick Sr. has some amazing insights to share.
This book covers the basics and provides you with helpful guides on various aspects of sex, such as separating porn from reality, and how to have sex when your parents are under the same roof.
3. Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us
It will force you to face the reality that the society you live in expects you to pick just one gender orientation and be restricted within its limits.
Imagine how adventurous your sex life will be if you don’t need to worry about such things.
Change your perspectives on sexual orientation and have fun.
4. Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships
It also explores how relationships have changed over time and what the modern kind involves.
5. Sex for One: The Joy of Self-Loving
Complete with instructive line drawings, it will show you why masturbation remains the most secure kind of sex and how you can best do it.
Written straightforward, real, funny, and insightful, this book is sure to change your mind about masturbation and why it is not grimy, corrupt, or wrong.
6. She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
A woman is just as responsible as there are two sides of a coin or a story.
If you are trying to un-glue yourself from the struggles of making your woman come, this book is a good read. The same is true for a woman who needs to look beyond her own orgasmic pursuits and understand a man’s point of view.
7. Sex Positions: Sex Skills No Man Can Resist. Make Him Beg for More!
Because it is an itemized book, choosing which sex position you want to try tonight would be easy to pinpoint.
8. Sexual Behavior in the Human Male
Published in 1948 with content about adultery, bisexuality, homosexuality, masturbation, and premarital sex, you can just imagine the kind of backlash or criticism that the author Alfred C. Kinsey may have received.
At that time, talking about sex and sexuality is practically taboo. And with him as a subject to extract data firsthand, the controversies he stirred likely caused moral outrage.
Well, he can tell society to read it and weep.
This is because the amount of information contained in the book still rings true today even when more research has been conducted since then.
9. Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook
This kind of lifestyle has existed even before Fifty Shades of Grey brought to the limelight domination and submission. The lack of education about BDSM is sure to blame for the kind of reaction people has about it.
This book aims to fix this.
Michael Makai not only provided tips but also explained what being dominant and submissive really is, complete with real-life translation.
10. Tantric Massage for Beginners: Discover the Best Essential Tantric Massage and Tantric Love Making Techniques!
Try the tantric massage outlined by R. Riley in this book and discover ways to reach climax without the pressure of having sex.
It also comes with common positions in tantric sex you can experiment with.
Do you have a favorite which isn’t on the list? Please share in the comment section below!