Getting creative in bed and trying new experiences is a great way of spicing up your sex life. From attempting complex positions to just trying something new and simple, branching out into different means of pleasure and sex can have wondrous effects on your sexual gratification and relationship by bringing you and your partner closer together. Here are a few sexy things you can try in bed with your partner to intensify the pleasure and make for an exhilarating experience.
1. Role playing
Add some dramatic flair to the bedroom with some role playing bits that allow you and your partner to covet your very own sexy character. Role playing is perfect for spicing things up in the bedroom. It adds something fun and silly with a sexy edge and is great for releasing some of that serious tension.
2. Light bondage
You don’t need to get serious with the whips and chains here, but experimenting with some light bondage can be a pleasurable experience for the both of you. It can be a lot of fun to blindfold your partner or handcuff them to the bed and just go at it. Even more, you can take turns in the dominating and submissive roles to switch it up and add a little adventure. This is a great way of exploring different sides of your sexuality.
3. Watch porn together
All awkwardness aside, watching porn with your partner while in bed can be a good way of heating things up and getting in the mood. Getting off on porn doesn’t have to be a solo activity. Use it as a stimulating way to get things going, and you can even use it as a way to masturbate in front of each other. Watching someone else’s pleasure is a good way of enhancing your own after all. Afterwards, you and your partner can even attempt to recreate the scenes you watched to add a little challenge.
4. Sexy striptease
This is a great and fun way of bringing some excitement to the bedroom. Instead of just launching into sex right off the bat, try leading into it with a striptease. Put on some sexy music that you can dance to, and put on a performance for your partner by dancing and grinding up against them while simultaneously taking off your clothes.
5. Experiment with food
What’s better than food and sex combined? You can use anything from whipped cream to chocolate to whatever your heart desires, just rub it on the parts of your body where you want your partner to lick it off. Not only are you experiencing the sensual pleasure of your partner’s tongue, but your partner gets a delicious taste.
6. Mimic the Kama Sutra
You’ve probably seen or, at the very least, heard of the Kama Sutra book of sexual positions. One way to add a little flavor to your sex life is to pick up a copy from the bookstore, flip through the pages, and try out some of the positions. It can be tricky and challenging, but it’s a very sexy way of getting closer to your partner.
7. Add some sex toys into the mix
If you’re the type of couple to leave it all completely up to each other, maybe take a trip to a local sex toy shop to add some excitement and flair to your sex life. It’s a great way of playing out your fantasies and it’s a great way of spicing things up in the sheets with a toy or two. Doing something as simple as adding a vibrator into the action can help enhance stimulation and make for a more pleasurable experience.
8. Delayed gratification
Instead of focusing on achieving that orgasm, try delaying pleasure by backing off every time one of you pushes the other to the brink. This will prolong the action and heat things up rather quickly, making the eventual climax a truly unforgettable one.
9. Incorporate some lube
If you don’t already, try introducing some lube into the bedroom. Using lubricant is a great way of enhancing sensitivity and intensifying pleasure, allowing for that sensuous and stimulating feel that can otherwise be uncomfortable and painful without the proper lubrication. Experiment with different scents and flavors to make sex all the more interesting and gratifying.
10. Make love
Sure you and your partner are no strangers to having sex with each other, but how often do you actually make love? Instead of simply focusing on getting to that climax, slow it down and focus on each other. Move sensually, caress and massage your partner, and kiss your partner’s neck. Make it slow and passionate, and really allow yourself to connect on that deeper level that sometimes gets in lost in the steaminess of concentrating on your own pleasure.